Great Ways to Survive the Christmas Holidays

Christmas is that time of the year that symbolizes a lot of fun, gaiety, gifts and you are expected to be an epitome of joi de vivre! But you can't help feeling an all-time low during this time if you have just lost your job or dealing with the grief of a family member's demise, feeling lonely and depressed in a distant land away from your family or any other personal, professional or psychological issue that is making you melancholy and averse to the festivities around you. When you are apprehensive about the onset of the festive season and surviving the Christmas holidays becomes a major concern, then its time you take stock of the situation.

Christmas blues can also be a result of certain causes that apparently seem unobtrusive and different factors can trigger different reactions in individuals. Many of us may not be able to able to handle the stress and the pressure involved in doing everything flawlessly and attaining the elusive level of perfection in making arrangements for Christmas. From purchasing gifts for family and friends hosting elaborate Christmas parties, attending family get-togethers and the expectation of participating in every other revelry that the world indulges in, can take a toll on you.

Following certain basic guidelines can help you to survive the Christmas holidays and beat the Christmas blues. To start with, it is important to be practical, don't set yourself unrealistic standards or let yourself get caught in the frenzy of commercialism. Thousands of brands will try to lure you with a mind-boggling array of Christmas goodies, gift items, apparel, gadgets, delicacies, and holiday destinations. Try not to be swayed by what your neighbour or friends have bought and feel deprived if you cannot afford the same.

To avoid last the minute rush, try to start planning at least a month ahead of the holiday season, Make your shopping list ahead as per your requirements, set aside a separate budget that is reasonable and adhere to it strictly, resisting the overpowering urge to splurge!

Many people get put off by the idea of socializing with a motley group of people during Christmas. Chalk out a guest list of people you are comfortable inviting and being with and don't invite those you feel socially obligated to invite. Steer clear of inviting relatives or family members who can become raucous and spoil the ambiance of the celebration.

Last but by no means least, try to make a difference to the lives of the underprivileged souls this festive season and do a voluntary and charitable service.